Let's Talk About Curls (Because They Deserve Better)

Let's Talk About Curls (Because They Deserve Better)

With over a decade spent in this industry, we've learned that curly-haired guests often come in with the most heartbreaking stories. They've been told their hair is "difficult" or "unmanageable." They've had stylists who tried to fight their natural texture instead of working with it..

But curls are absolutely gorgeous when they're treated right! The problem isn't your hair - we just need to understand curl patterns and what each type truly needs!

The Cut Makes or Breaks Everything

Do you know how many times we've had someone sit in our chair and say, "My hair looks completely different every time I wash it."? Nine times out of ten, it's because they got a haircut that wasn't made for curls!

Here's what usually happens: the stylist cuts the hair wet and straight, not accounting for how much curls shrink up when they dry. Or they give you layers that look great on straight hair but create this weird uneven shape on curls. We've seen people with beautiful 3c curls end up with haircuts that make them look like they stuck their finger in an electrical socket.

We always cut curls when they're in their natural state, either completely dry or just barely damp so that we can see exactly how they're going to fall. It takes a little longer, but your curls will thank you for it! Every curl has its own personality, and we need to see that personality before we start cutting.

The Moisture Situation is Real

Okay, so this is going to sound obvious, but curly hair is thirsty. Like, constantly. The shape of the curl literally makes it harder for your scalp's natural oils to travel down the hair shaft, so the ends are always going to be drier than the roots!

There are so many brands on the market with curl products, and really? Kérastase and Oribe are going to be the most bang for your buck. They actually understand curl chemistry. The Kérastase Curl Manifesto line, and the Oribe Eternal Curls line are both incredible, giving you moisture without that heavy, crunchy feeling!

And here's the thing that surprises people: you probably don't need as much product as you think. We see guests come in with buildup because they're using way too much trying to get their curls to behave. Start with less than you think you need, and then add more if necessary!

Stop Fighting Frizz

We're going to let you in on a secret: a little bit of frizz is normal, and actually kind of beautiful! This whole "frizz-free" obsession has gotten out of hand. Perfect, Instagram-smooth curls aren't realistic for most of us living in the real world with humidity and weather and, you know, life.

That said, there are definitely things that make frizz worse, and things that can help with it, too..

Here's how to help:

  • Terrycloth towels are the enemy - they rough up your hair cuticle and create more frizz. We tell all the curly guests to get microfiber towels instead. Real difference-maker!
  • Brushing your curls when they're dry - don't do it! We know it seems logical, but you're just breaking up the curl pattern and creating frizz. Detangle with conditioner in the shower, scrunch out excess water, add your products, and then don't touch it until it's completely dry.
  • And of course, make sure you're using anti-frizz products! We have some great options available here!

When To Get Professional Help

Look, we do treatments because they work, not because we're trying to upsell you. If your curls feel chronically dry, brittle, or damaged, a good deep treatment can reset everything! Our go-to treatment is the Kérastase Fusio-Dose. They're basically like a vitamin shot for your hair, and they target whatever specific issue you're dealing with.

But really? Good at-home care is way more important than occasional salon treatments. Don't get us wrong, both are important. But, we'd rather you spend money on quality shampoo and conditioner that you use twice a week, than come in for a treatment once a month, just to still be using drugstore products at home.

The Things Nobody Tells You

Sleep on a silk pillowcase or get a silk bonnet. We know it sounds high-maintenance, but cotton pillowcases create friction that can mess up your curl pattern overnight! You'll wake up looking like you already styled your hair instead of having to start over every morning.

Also, get trims regularly! We know it's scary when you're trying to grow your hair out, but split ends travel up the hair shaft and make everything look scraggly. Every 8-12 weeks, just take off the damaged bits. Your curls will look SO much healthier!

Here's What We Wish Every Curly-Haired Person Knew

Your hair isn't difficult, it just needs someone who understands it! We've had guests cry in our chair after their first proper curly cut because they finally felt beautiful with their natural texture. That shouldn't be rare.

Find a stylist who gets excited about working with your curls, not someone who treats them like a problem to solve! Make sure they cut your hair in its natural state. And please, please don't let anyone talk you into relaxing or chemically straightening your hair just because they don't know how to work with it. Only you can make that choice for yourself.

Your curls are not the problem. The wrong approach is the problem!

Ready To Love Your Curls?

If you're tired of fighting with your hair, come see us! We promise to figure out what your curls need to look and feel their best. No judgment, no trying to make your hair into something it's not, just helping you work with what you've got! Because really? When curls are done right, there's nothing more beautiful!

We can't wait to see you!

Hyde Chapin: 803-723-2410

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These are some of the products our team loves and recommends for this look: Eternal Curls Moisturizing Shampoo | Eternal Curls Intense Conditioner.

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